Teach me, O Lord the way of your statutes,
and I will observe it to the end.
Give me understanding,
that I may keep your law
and observe it with my whole heart.
Lead me in the path of your commandments,
for I delight in it.
Turn my heart to your decrees,
and not to selfish gain.
Turn my eyes from looking at vanities;
give me life in your ways.
(New Revised Standard Version)
Did you know there are websites that argue that we should be selfish? They argue that survival means we should be selfish, and how can we look after others if we don't care for ourselves! Others talk of being either community-centred or self-centred. Professors of psychiatry argue that we should be self-focused, put our priority in sorting ourselves out and then we'll be better leaders and get better jobs, people won't be able to manipulate us, etc, etc! You get the message, I'm sure. Of course there is an element of truth in some of these sentiments, but these messages are also very appealing, feeding our inherent desire to be selfish.
The Psalmist recognises how we are tempted, and reminds us to turn to God and ask Him to keep us from exploring selfish desires. As Christians we should put God first after all, and then love others as we love ourselves.
Heavenly Father,
help us to to be honest with You;
to remember all that we owe You;
to care for those around us;
to be concerned for Your world;
and then to look at our own desires.
Amen.